How we are involved in the creation and destruction of our part and the rest of the universe.

                In continuation of the previous article were we understood how feeling are the precursor of thoughts followed by words and meaning followed by speech and form (images, Symbols). It is often seen that what we humans speak, we follow it with action by doing it [there are exceptions to this as there are variation amongst us]. This is attributed to the desire to experience the same, as we are not satisfied by mere knowledge (concept). Action is always aided by passion, the degree of which gives us the result in proportionate time interval. Passion is also proportional to the intensity of desire. This invariably governs our success or failure of any thing we do. In addition, our normal instinct as humans, with expectation for the best are influenced by the desire for the RESULT for all the action performed by us.

                All feelings need not necessarily be generated by the soul, as they can also manifest from outside influences like incidents, god’s grace, telepathy to name a few. All feelings are modifications of the basic nature of our soul, which is “LOVE “. As our universe and time field is the relative domain (domain of comparison) there is duality of everything that is manifested here, nothing can exist here without the opposite. Therefore, when love enters the relative domain there will always exist “HATE” along with it. Hate is the generator of “FEAR” and “COURAGE”. Fear is the most powerful factor of PASSION (INSTIGATION or DETERRENCE) forcing the mind and body to action or inaction; all these develop a relationship with one or more things in this manifested world. The counter part of our universe of relativity there is the universe of absolute, since our mind is preoccupied by the interaction here we seldom think of the absolute universe. Universe of relativity cannot exist by itself in the absence of the universe of absolute this will be in the time reference of the supreme reality, which we call GOD.

                 In our interaction within the manifest world we create and destroy in a continuously starting from birth and ending in death of the physical body, but the mental and spiritual interaction may continue here or in the realm of absolute depending on our choice, this is one of the laws of the universe “ All the individual spirits may be free to choose (LOVE) any thing that they want” even god does not interfere with this, as this boon or law may be violated if he does, and why will he interfere when he believes that we are actually equal to him capable of doing everything that he can do? We have forgotten this and have taken birth only to remember this. Alternatively, why will he loose the opportunity to experience the event, which we choose? When experience of him was the reason, he divided his consciousness into so many individual consciousnesses? The only difference between god and us is that he is always in the absolute and beyond where there is no differentiation of anything except continuous being and experiencing all acts without involvement or differentiation, so no duality but will experience by him as we live all our feelings, thoughts, words, and speech and he just watches  (observe) all our actions only. Will not interfere and let us create and destroy our creation and recreate it again only to destroy it again until we realize our true self and cross over to the absolute. THUS, THE CHOICE IS OURS. This is what makes us want do, experience anything we want including the feeling of separation that in extreme sense develops into “SELFISHNESS” developing the tendency to horde, accumulate MATERIAL or MENTAL things, for a short duration of MENTAL PLEASURE suppressing the SPIRITUAL PLEASURE (that enables the experiencing the complete totality), there by limiting it to sense of I-NESS and MINE (EGO). This curtails our joy of experiencing everything and develops attachment (FEAR OF LOSS) to the results of all our actions, sometimes leading us to in actions.

                All relationships (interactions) are done only to remember who we are. They are so selected as to enable us to experience the same. This tells us that somewhere along the plan of GOD our separated consciousness. We came to accept that our false sense of separation and got caught up in our own thoughts, speech and action to be the complete instead of the entire universe, all our efforts to go back to the original is what has landed us in the present state of the universe. Our only blessing is that “ No relationship can be terminated by one partner” another one of god’s universal laws, thus even though we have developed a feeling of separation from GOD HE/ SHE has not left us this is our only hope to unite back with the ultimate reality. The physical separation may be for a definite period for as long as either decides, but the mental separation may be for a definite period for as long as the memory lasts This is what makes us come back, So this memory has to be wiped out either by reliving it and not creating new ones or achieving gods grace. Spiritual separation can never be possible as all are connected via the soul by the love the pure form of energy.

                Thus, the REASON for developing any relationship or interaction must be CLEAR to both or all the partners equally with respect to physical, mental and spiritual aspects, definition and limits; the REASON for developing any relationship should also be MUTUALLY ACCEPTED,

All the effort of all concerned should be to FULFILL the REASON for developing any relationship.

There definitely should not be any obligation from either partner.

Each partner should go into the relationship with the attitude of what he has TO GIVE in to the REASON for developing any relationship rather than what he should GET FROM the relationship.

Each partner should play his role with the sole intension of achieving the REASON for developing any relationship;

none should take on the ROLE OF JUDGE.

Never get into any relationship without a RESON.

The REASON of any agreed relationship should never changed or modified, if this ever should happen then KNOW that the previous relation ship was not successfully completed and a new relationship has developed to make it complicated, there should be NO REDEFINING the original relationship. Only start a new one from the beginning CLARIFY, ACCEPT AND PLAY YOUR ROLE FOR THE NEW REASON and not for each other.

IT IS NEVER WHAT YOU WANT THE OTHER TO BE IN THE RELATIONSHIP, IT IS ALWAYS WHAT YOU SHOULD DO TO ACHIEVE THE REASON.

Clarity WILL DEFINITLY ENSURES SUCCESS.

Any relationship should never be entered into with any feeling of SACRIFICE, as there should not be any reason for upper hand, as it will definitely end up as a trade with only one benefiting.

YES THERE CAN BE MORE THAN ONE REASONS, but these relationships will be more complicated and rarely a success.

The reason in the spiritual sense should be only to achieve the ultimate reality, as any relationship can achieve this, as all acts lead to GOD.

NEVER SETTLE FOR ANYTHING LESS THAN THE HIGHEST GOAL (MOKSHA or ULTIMATE UNION WITH GOD) for your relationship as it may lead to modification.

To continue life forever and ever You may choose worldly reasons and achieve success, this I say because ultimately all are going to become GOD whether we like it or not.

The short cut to the instant realization is to accept that you are equal to GOD FRM NOW.  

                This above fact makes us realize that IT IS ONLY WE WHO CREATE AND DESTROY EVERYTHING. All our interaction or relationships are only to create an identity for us and desire what all should accept us as. How we do it is our understanding of things always influences feelings and thoughts; these are gained from our relationship with teachers, relatives, and religion. In the journey to realization, we gradually replace these with that which is true universally. To do this first study all material not just superficially but right up to the level of feelings, if any conflict arise know that what the feelings convey is closer to the universal truth and accept it, rather than the text book. This is a better way to decide what you want to become. We search a role model either history or the current most celebrated personality and start to emulate his way of life, style of thoughts, speech and behavior into our every day life. As what we speak and act is what people see and decide what we are and assign you the title or name according to their knowledge. Now comes the difficult part, to become what you want to be that is living it to the letter and spirit.

SO WHY NOT CHOOSE TO BE GOD? First, we have to know everything about GOD to know how to emulate him. It is not sufficient that we just know we have the task of spreading it out to each and every one so that they also have the same information and thus will call us GOD. THIS IS WHERE THE DIFFICULTY IS ------- MAKING EVERYONE ACCEPTS UOR DEFINITION OF GOD.